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Self  Esteem Optimism Vs Pessimism    



Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for a while and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same. -Unknown

The perception of beauty is a moral test. -Henry David Thoreau

Love’s pleasure lasts but a moment, Love’s pain lasts a lifetime. -St. John Perse

Love eagerly believes everything it wishes. -Racine

To love and be loved will be the greatest event in our lives. -Jean-Jacques Rousseau

A lover whose passion is extreme loves even the faults of the beloved -Molière

One may have two passions, but one cannot have two loves. One who loves twice does not love. -Alexander Dumas, Jr.

We stop loving ourselves when no one loves us. -Madame de Staël

The heart has reasons that the mind knows not. -Pascal

Love is not the act of looking at each other but of looking together in the same direction. -Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

When in love one often speaks of love too much but does not prove it enough. -Régnier

The first symptom of love in a young man is shyness; the first symptom in a young woman, it’s boldness. -Victor Hugo

The most beautiful women are made for lovers who lack imagination. -Guy de Maupassant

One who loves with a passion can not easily forgive. -Claudel

Love is much better than hatred; there is never too much. -René Descartes

Talk not of wasted affection; affection never was wasted. -Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

Lust is when you love what you see. Love is when you lust for what’s inside. -Renee Conkle

We cannot be more sensitive to pleasure without being more sensitive to pain. -Alan Watts

Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us or we find it not. -Ralph Waldo Emerson

What we say is important... for in most cases the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. -Jim Beggs

Let men tremble to win the hand of woman, unless they win along with it the utmost passion of her heart. -Nathaniel Hawthorne

The hardest of all is learning to be a well of affection, and not a fountain; to show them we love them not when we feel like it, but when they do. -Nan Fairbrother

Somethings in life will capture your eye. Others will capture your heart...pursue those. -Unknown

I love a hand that meets my own with a grasp that causes some sensation. -Samuel Osgood

Love is an attempt to change a piece of the dream-world into reality. -Theodor Reik

Once in awhile, right in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairy tale. -Unknown

It isn’t intellect that connects us to other people; it is feeling. -Charles Fowler

The course of true love never did run smooth. -William Shakespeare


The only way to have a friend is to be one. -Ralph Waldo Emerson

Laugh, and the world laughs with you; Weep, and you weep alone. -Ella Wheeler Wilcox

Real friends are those who upon watching you make a fool of yourself do not feel that the job was done permanently. -Anonymous

It is easy enough to be friendly to one’s friends. But to befriend one who regards himself as your enemy is the quintessence of religion. The other is mere business. -Mahatma Gandhi

Go often to the house of thy friend, for weeds choke the unused path. -Ralph Waldo Emerson

A good friend remembers what we were and sees what we can be. -Janette Oke

Friendship is like money, easier made than kept. -Samuel Butler

When we seek to discover the best in others, we somehow bring out the best in ourselves. -William Arthur Ward

A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature. -Ralph Waldo Emerson

Be slow in choosing a friend, slower in changing. -Benjamin Franklin

Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into flame by another human being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this light. - Albert Schweitzer

Friendship is constant in all other things Save in the office and affairs of love. -William Shakespeare

It is not our purpose to become each other; it is to recognize each other, to learn to see the other and honor him for what he is. -Hermann Hesse

When you hear a kind word spoken about a friend, tell him so. -H. Jackson Brown

Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow; don't walk behind me, I may not lead; walk beside me, and just be my friend. - Albert Camus

A man cannot be said to succeed in this life who does not satisfy one friend. -Henry David Thoreau

When you have once seen the glow of happiness on the face of a beloved person, you know that a man can have no vocation but to awaken that light on the faces surrounding him; and you are torn by the thought of the unhappiness and night you cast, by the mere fact of living, in the hearts you encounter. - Albert Camus

It is one of the most beautiful compensations of life, that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself. -Ralph Waldo Emerson

He who has a thousand friends Has not a friend to spare, While he who has one enemy Shall meet him everywhere. -Ralph Waldo Emerson

The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile nor the joy of companionship; it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when he discovers that someone else believes in him and is willing to trust him. -Ralph Waldo Emerson

A friend is a person with whom you dare to be yourself. -Frank Crane

I cannot even imagine where I would be today were it not for that handful of friends who have given me a heart full of joy. Let's face it, friends make life a lot more fun. -Charles Swindoll

The difference between friendship and love is how much you can hurt each other. -Ashleigh Brilliant


Reality is the playground for the unimaginative. -Unknown

Reality is more than the thing itself. I look always for its super reality. Reality lies in how you see things. - Pablo Picasso

The reality of the other person is not in what he reveals to you, but in what he cannot reveal to you. Therefore, if you would understand him, listen not to what he says but rather what he does not say. -Kahlil Gibran

Love is an attempt to change a piece of the dream-world into reality. -Theodor Reik


Two paths diverged in a wood and I - I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference. -Robert Frost

Maturity is when you stop doing the things you make excuses for and stop making excuses for the things you need to do. -Unknown

It’s the special things in life that make it mean so much. The sun, the rain the sky; the thoughts and the touch. If we let these precious things float out to endless sea, we lose our hope, our love and all our reason to be. -Unknown

There must be more to life than sitting there wondering if there is more to life. -Unknown

Humor is just another defense against the universe. -Mel Brooks

If you’re not afraid to face the music, you may someday lead the band. -Unknown

If I could drop dead right now, I’d be the happiest man alive. -Samuel Goldwyn

Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. -Martin Luther King, Jr.

When you live in the shadow of insanity, the appearance of another mind that thinks and talks as yours does is something close to a blessed event. -R. Pirsig

All you need in this life is ignorance and confidence, and then success is sure. -Mark Twain

I learned there are troubles of more than one kind. Some come from ahead and some from behind. -Dr. Seuss

If today is the first day of the rest of your life, what was yesterday? -Unknown

Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed people can change the world. Indeed it is the only thing that ever has. -Margaret Mead

Live your life as an exclamation, not an explanation. -Unknown

Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die today. -James Dean

You may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing we call failure' is not the falling down, but the staying down. -Mary Pickford

Whatever you do may seem insignificant, but it is most important that you do it. -Mahatma Gandhi

It is not enough to be busy, so are the ants. The question is: what are we busy about? -Henry David Thoreau

I like nonsense, it wakes up the brain cells. Fantasy is a necessary ingredient in living, it's a way of looking at life through the wrong end of a telescope. Which is what I do, and that enables you to laugh at life's realities. - Dr. Seuss

People who know little are usually great talkers, while men who know much say little. - Jean Jacques Rousseau

I'd rather be a failure at something I love than a success at something I hate. - George Burns

I was wise enough to never grow up while fooling most people into believing I had. - Margaret Mead

People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they're not on your road doesn't mean they've gotten lost. -H. Jackson Browne

The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and all science. He to whom this emotion is a stranger, who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe, is as good as dead; his eyes are closed. - Albert Einstein

There is a theory which states that if ever anybody discovers exactly what the Universe is for and why it is here, it will instantly disappear and be replaced by something even more bizarre and inexplicable. There is another theory which states that this has already happened. - Douglas Adams

It is possible to believe that all the past is but the beginning of a beginning, and that all that is and has been is but the twilight of the dawn. It is possible to believe that all the human mind has ever accomplished is but the dream before the awakening. -H.G. Wells

It is not length of life, but depth of life. -Ralph Waldo Emerson

In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on. -Robert Frost

Sometimes I think we're alone. Sometimes I think we're not. In either case, the thought is staggering. -Buckminster Fuller

Consistency is contrary to nature, contrary to life. The only completely consistent people are dead. -Aldous Huxley

Don't go around saying the world owes you a living. The world owes you nothing. It was here first. -Mark Twain

Hypocrisy is the lubricant of society. -David Hull

The most incomprehensible thing about the world is that it is comprehensible. -Albert Einstein

The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation and go to the grave with the song still in them. -Henry David Thoreau

Still round the corner there may wait, A new road or a secret gate. - J.R.R. Tolkien

It's surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you're not comfortable within yourself, you can't be comfortable with others. -Sydney J. Harri

I passionately hate the idea of being with it, I think an artist has always to be out of step with his time. -Orson Welles

Why is it that we rejoice at a birth and grieve at a funeral? It is because we are not the person involved. - Mark Twain

A person starts to live when he can live outside himself. -Albert Einstein

I get this feeling we'll be together again. No straight lines make up my life, all roads have bends. No clear cut beginnings and so far no dead ends. -Harry Chapin

There is no such thing in anyone's life as an unimportant day. -Alexander Woollcott

Take time to come home to yourself everyday. -Robin Casarjeam

If you stop searching, you stop living, because then you're dwelling in the past. If you’re not reaching forward to any growth or future, you might as well be dead. -Wynn Bullock

Expecting the world to treat you fairly because you are a good person is a little like expecting a bull not to attack you because you are a vegetarian. - Dennis Wholey

You can't stay in your corner of the forest, waiting for others to come to you; you have to go to them sometimes. -Unknown

To be what we are, and to become what we are capable of becoming, is the only end of life. - Baruch Spinoza

Life is the childhood of our immortality. -Goethe


Somebody's boring me--I think it's me. -Dylan Thomas

There is nothing in the whole world so painful as the feeling that one is not liked. -Sei Shonagon

What you achieve through the journey of life is not as important as who you become. -Unknown

No one is much pleased with a companion who does not increase, in some respect, their fondness for themselves. -Samuel Johnson

Don't be humble. You're not that great. -Golda Meir

Self love is the greatest of all flatterers. -La Rochefoucauld

We stop loving ourselves when no one loves us. -Madame de Staël

It's surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you're not comfortable within yourself, you can't be comfortable with others. -Sydney J. Harri

If you have anything really valuable to contribute to the world it will come through the expression of your own personality, that single spark of divinity that sets you off and makes you different from every other living creature. -Bruce Barton

To be nobody-but-yourself -- in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else -- means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting. -E.E. Cummings

Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves. -Carl Jung

Optimism vs. Pessimism

Do you know what a pessimist is? A pessimist is a person who thinks everybody is as nasty as himself and hates them for it. -George Bernard Shaw

The optimist thinks this is the best of all possible worlds. The pessimist fears it is true. -Robert Oppenheimer
An optimist is a person who sees a green light everywhere, while a pessimist sees only the red stoplight...The truly wise person is color blind. -Albert Schweitser

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